Sometimes it really f*ckin’ sucks outgrowing your friends because you want them to grow WITH you, but for whatever reason, it’s just not their time yet. 😐 ⠀
I’ve learned that you can’t explain a concept to someone who is vibrating on a different frequency as you and expect them to understand, no matter how you say it. And you can’t lift someone up who chooses to stay stuck. They have to find it within themselves to start shifting their mindset and grow on their own.
It can be challenging to let them go for many reasons, but one main reason is because of their judgements. They tend to believe the reason you are leaving them is because you’re now “too good” for them, are “smarter” than them, or are just “arrogant” and “stuck up.” Instead of turning inwards to take a look at themselves they project judgments at you and then continue spending most of their time complaining about you and attaching emotions to their negative thoughts.
Only someone coming from a lower vibration would believe someone is “better” than them in the first place.
No one is “better” than anyone, as we all come from the same source, and that’s probably the best concept to begin wrapping your head around if you want to start shifting ANYTHING in your life into something more positive. 😉
Comparing and judging can get the best of you. Don’t compare your journey to others… we are all walking our own unique paths and growing at different rates.
Instead of perpetuating the negativity in your mind, try releasing people with love and watch what kind of magic unfolds! ✨✨✨